We started to look at venues today and it hit me that this is real and is actually happening. It's so strange when it happens to you. It's just something that I always thought was in the far distant future and it's been something I've thought about my whole life and now it is really happening. And it's so much more than I ever thought it would be!
I must say, there is alot about this wedding that I really haven't given a whole lot of thought to, and to be honest, I don't really care too much about. Whenever I have thought about my wedding (and those who know me can attest to this) I have cared about two things; who I am marrying and let's party! I always told myself that I was just going to elope and I think if Jason had it his way, he would say we should do that too. But now that it's here, I really want a day for us to celebrate our relationship. I still don't care a whole lot about the details, thankfully, I have a mother who is great at that and can help with some ideas. I just want to be married to Jason. I want to have a marriage with lots of happiness and I want everyone to know that it can happen, to have someone you truly love who truly loves you, no matter what. I want our day to be a day to celebrate love and happy endings. So, that's what we will do. No muss, no fuss. I don't want my engagement to be caught up in details that don't matter and weekends of running around making plans. I want simplicity, quick choices and then a time to actually enjoy being engaged because I will never be engaged again. I only have six months to call him my fiancee and I want to enjoy every minute of it!
Don't get me wrong. It won't be some crummy affair. But just know that on our wedding day, you won't be paying any attention to the center pieces or extravagance because that is simply not me or Jason. But I hope you will sense the love we have for each other and if you do, then our job will be done. Oh, and I want to do the wedding for less than $500. Do you think that's possible? Hmmm....
I must say, there is alot about this wedding that I really haven't given a whole lot of thought to, and to be honest, I don't really care too much about. Whenever I have thought about my wedding (and those who know me can attest to this) I have cared about two things; who I am marrying and let's party! I always told myself that I was just going to elope and I think if Jason had it his way, he would say we should do that too. But now that it's here, I really want a day for us to celebrate our relationship. I still don't care a whole lot about the details, thankfully, I have a mother who is great at that and can help with some ideas. I just want to be married to Jason. I want to have a marriage with lots of happiness and I want everyone to know that it can happen, to have someone you truly love who truly loves you, no matter what. I want our day to be a day to celebrate love and happy endings. So, that's what we will do. No muss, no fuss. I don't want my engagement to be caught up in details that don't matter and weekends of running around making plans. I want simplicity, quick choices and then a time to actually enjoy being engaged because I will never be engaged again. I only have six months to call him my fiancee and I want to enjoy every minute of it!
Don't get me wrong. It won't be some crummy affair. But just know that on our wedding day, you won't be paying any attention to the center pieces or extravagance because that is simply not me or Jason. But I hope you will sense the love we have for each other and if you do, then our job will be done. Oh, and I want to do the wedding for less than $500. Do you think that's possible? Hmmm....
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